If you are struggling with eating or relationship issues, or need general psychotherapy, you have come to the right place. Clients receive support, insight, and actions they can take to move forward in even the most vexing areas of their lives. The blog contains helpful information, and my list of services describes how I work in the different specialties. Whatever your challenges, I hope this website and I can be of service. Appointments are available over Zoom or by phone, with in-person meetings available periodically.


Monday-Thursday 9:00am-6:00pm

Email now for a free, 20-minute consultation: kahnmft@gmail.com.

Check out these helpful, free podcasts:

Two Wise Women Talking, co-hosted with Diana Zaheer. Tools and stories to help you bring more love to the relationship with yourself and others. Available wherever you get your podcasts.

Conquering your Inner Critic, a podcast with Sheira Kahn, hosted by Vicky Aldana.

Services > Couples Counseling - Same Sex and Heterosexual couples
Couples Counseling - Same Sex and Heterosexual couples

Are you and your partner fighting more than you would like? Does it feel like the relationship is becoming difficult? Have you tried your best, and things still aren’t getting better? You may even wonder if you will be able to get over the hard times. 

There is nothing more upsetting than strife with a loved one, so of course you feel discouraged. But a future in which the good times outweigh the bad is possible. 

I have studied with excellent couples counselors both as a clinician and a client and blended the best practices from each into my method. I teach couples how to develop concrete skills and a base of compassion for getting through conflict. This combination helps people de-escalate the fights and re-connect, even more strongly than before. Then couples can once again access the love that brought them together. 

Call for an appointment in San Rafael or Alameda. 415-336-4631. Skype also available.